I am a games person. In the summer I play senior softball three days a week. I always come in either first or second place (there are only two teams each day). I play duplicate bridge twice a week. There are six to 10 teams for each game, and my partner and I often come in first or second. If I don’t, my wife, Judy, announces, “Winner, winner, or no dinner.” A game usually takes about 3½ hours.

My wife could never play softball due to the physical nature of the game.